The reason for my hysterectomy operation is due to many years of suffering each month which I thought it was “normal”; after all I have had seven children, however the last 6 months really took its toll and as of January 2015 it was time to say “bye misery and hello life”.
My increased fitness has indeed helped so far with the road to recovery. The surgeon did say it was one of the easiest operations she has done in a while, due to the fact I had not much “fat”, along with my stomach muscles being stronger and tighter.
Fibroids were found though and while it is only early days and I’m only 10 days out of surgery, the recovery period is indeed very important and rest being the only way to get better; therefore here are some of the things I have set up to make life a little easier:
- Purchased a body/pregnancy pillow which helps with sleeping and sitting up in bed. Getting comfort while sleeping is difficult and with the incision and tummy swelling, the body pillow is so comfortable. If sitting up in bed, I then turn it into a boomerang pillow and use as back support.
- Set up my bedside table with easy to reach items and my home pharmacy, controlling the pain is essential. Everything should be in easy reach including my laptop and supply of movies.
- Have power supply and cords organised for charging your phone or electrical equipment close at hand so there is no need to stretch and lean over the bed to get them.
- Make an easy reach mobile phone charger holder – here.
Make sure you have a plan set up prior to going in, eg meals organised and frozen, cleaner or housekeeper, family or friends support, see here for what may be useful for freezer meals and how I got organised prior to surgery.
When going out in the car (and even after coming home from hospital) take a pillow or cushion with you for padding between you and the seat belt.
Don’t feel guilty about lazing around all day in bed, rest is essential and the only way to heal.
Be mindful of what you can and can’t do. Here is a rough guide below. Everyone recovers differently, however, it is major surgery and without following the basic healing instructions, one could end up doing more damage than good.
Along with my recovery, I have joined a wonderful group on Facebook – many women suffer every day and here women can come together to discuss the positives and negatives of the above surgery.
Another aspect of my recovery is controlling the possible side effects which may include the following:
- Gas pain and bloating;
- Decreased strength and fitness;
- Back pain;
- Weight gain;
- Chest problems and difficulty coughing;
- Decreased circulation;
- Difficulty emptying the bladder;
- Pain or discomfort moving out of bed; and
Information and more detail on the list above can be seen here; however I think I have a most of the above covered in the way I am handling my recovery.
If I can offer any advice at this stage; never be afraid to ask for help whether ill, recovering from surgery, have the flu or any illness or ailment etc. Your health is more important than anything including chores, laundry and a messy disordered home. If having to sit all day or not leave the house is all you need to stress about; then so be it, for as long as you have your health these simple worries are nothing really.
*Many thanks to my wonderful husband and family for helping me rest and heal; as my life can only get better form this point onwards.